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Auckland Divorce Lawyer – Is There A Better Way?

Friday, February 17th, 2023

Coaching For A Relationship Separation – Auckland Divorce Lawyer

 

Divorce is often viewed as an engagement of warfare, in which individuals engage an Auckland divorce lawyer and go to battle. Frequently this involves both lawyers exchanging combative communications and an ugly situation developing.

 

Couple arguingFinally, after many hours, and spending thousands of dollars, the separation agreement is agreed, and you get to put your signature to the final document.  That is the good outcome. For many couples, they get their fate decided by a relative stranger in the form of a judge. This person allocates the matrimonial property, and worse still, tells you the amount of time your children can be with you.

 

On the surface, a divorce is applying a set of skills and knowledge that are already written into law. Any joint relationship property will be split equally and access to any children is to be agreed so as to be fair tot eh children, not the adults.

 

However, because of the human emotion involved, this fairly simple process gets derailed and complicated. Consequently, more and more people around the world are looking for different ways to reach an amicable, and lower cost divorce settlement. Even some lawyers want to find a better method.

 

A pioneer in this search for a new way to separate more amicably and cost-effectively is an Auckland divorce lawyer, Adrianne McLean. She started a divorce coaching service called Reset Coach. The aim of this coaching service is to combine her 20 years of working as a divorce lawyer and using coaching to enable the couple to reach an easier settlement, irrespective of the circumstances that caused them to want to separate.

 

The average divorce in New Zealand costs $30,000 plus untold misery and emotional heartache long the way. The process involves spending hours on both emotional and practical issues with the lawyer. The very system means that it is difficult to isolate the two aspects which extends the number of hours needed, and of course, the cost. Coaching on the other hand avoids this conflicted time, and focuses on helping the two parties to understand and workout a better way forward.

 

After agreeing how you will split the relationship property and the access to the children, you are able to reset yourself and your life. This can be you want. For some people they will grieve over the loss of their relationship, lost opportunities, and wasted years as some might see it.  Other people might feel free from the constraints of their marriage, emotional state, and time.

 

Talk To An Auckland Divorce Lawyer And Coach

Auckland divorce lawyerIf your relationship is in a difficult place, or maybe you are not feeling fulfilled, it might be time to talk to a divorce coach. They can help you see a way forward, and if they also have the necessary legal qualifications, they can carry out the actual processing of documents, asset transfers, and more.

 

In Auckland, Reset Coach is one such service which combines both coaching and being an Auckland divorce lawyer.

 

You can find more details bout their service from this page.